tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-86409795486580815622023-11-16T05:52:17.515-08:00extraordinarily ordinaryLyzzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10959448618715092607noreply@blogger.comBlogger148125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640979548658081562.post-49133111131666955302011-10-23T16:05:00.001-07:002011-10-23T16:05:39.688-07:00TumblrYou can check up on my <a href="http://trxsxrms.tumblr.com/">Tumblr</a><br />
<img src="http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v292/x_hitnrun/lyzzsig.jpg" />Lyzzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10959448618715092607noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640979548658081562.post-83407719896553413302011-09-25T10:14:00.001-07:002011-09-25T10:14:49.866-07:00.. .. .<div style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: white; background-image: url(http://assets.tumblr.com/images/input_bg.gif); background-origin: initial; background-position: 50% 0%; background-repeat: repeat no-repeat; color: black; font-family: 'Lucida Grande', Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 1.4; margin-bottom: 8px; margin-left: 12px; margin-right: 12px; margin-top: 8px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;">I have made an executive decision. I told my Husband that he WILL NOT com home unless he has gone to the gym that day.<br />
It is NOT because I do not think he is sexy. I am very attracted to my Husband.<br />
The problem is that he does not feel sexy.<br />
This causes conflict with the 'Very attracted to Husband' fact seen above.<br />
How frustrating that fact may be is nothing in comparison to the sadness I felt when 'we' finally came to this conclusion. He knew all along, but felt he could not tell me.<br />
From a female standpoint, when your Husband doesn't want you, you assume it's you. At least after a significant amount of time. So I obviously felt it was me that was not up to par in the physical attractiveness, I am a Mom... it takes its toll.<br />
When have I become the person he could not talk to?<br />
He's been to the gym once so far (which was Thursday, and I told him Wednesday night he had to gym it up). I am hoping this yields positive results. I don't care if he's ripped, or even trim.<br />
I can't take the day-to-day banter without.... occasional closeness.</div><br />
<img src="http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v292/x_hitnrun/lyzzsig.jpg" />Lyzzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10959448618715092607noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640979548658081562.post-33305231240021838712011-09-06T21:12:00.001-07:002011-09-06T21:12:09.098-07:00Is<div><p>I have to prepare myself for a life with very few friends. <br>
I am not saying that there is anything wrong with the world, or wrong with me. It just is. <br>
It's not what I want, but it just is. I need something to look forward to, a reason to get off the couch. Right now, I am trying. I am trying very hard to come up with things that will make my world turn, because it feels like it isn't.<br>
I don't feel like I am good at anything, I feel lazy, and don't have a high self esteem. I need to fix that. </p>
</div>Lyzzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10959448618715092607noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640979548658081562.post-5958836190925319462011-09-02T01:39:00.001-07:002011-09-02T01:39:38.001-07:00TMI. Redundant.<div>I've been contemplating masturbation.
I know. It's more than that, though.
Let me tell you, 3lbs will do a TON for ones self esteem.
I am not a size 6, which is twice what I was at 17. I didn't feel sexy at 17 for who knows what reason, maybe it was how I grew up, maybe it's just how most teenagers who had an awkward phase tend to be. Nevertheless, I look at my hips, my waist, and sometimes even my breasts and think "Wow". Mind you, this is not every day, and maybe particularly today because I'm ovulating. In general, I find myself to be sexy, alluring, and generally desireable in a nearly plus sized way (which is the sexiest, if you ask me).
I need something. Watching Mad Men makes me consider smoking, but I don't think I ever could, for a variety of reasons, most of all being the smell. Plus, I've got a leech of a pretty daughter right now, which really leaves my only alone time being when I shower, and not always then.
I'm cranky, I'm stressed, and I'm on the edge. I know of only one way to find relief, and I am going to have to do it myself.
I'm probably going to have to find an online tutorial.
I know, I've talked about this before, but going on 4 days is honestly more than I can bear. I may be a married woman, but I am almost 22, and I've got a lot of fire, and nobody is putting out the flame.
I've got a Pin-board (pinterest) completely dedicated to Ryan Reynolds, and sometimes he slips into my 'Delicious' board, which is obviously still applicable.
At this point, I'd get a job to pay for personal toys.
I've got all these fantasies in my head, they leak into my dreams, and I wake up more frustrated than ever. And sometimes they include Ryan Reynolds, and sometimes people that make it uncomfortable (in my head) to see.
<img src="http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v292/x_hitnrun/lyzzsig.jpg"/></img></div>Lyzzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10959448618715092607noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640979548658081562.post-8186388893496352922011-08-21T21:34:00.001-07:002011-08-21T21:34:25.855-07:00Misanthropy.<div><p>An old friend once had their Myspace (yeah, THAT old) <i>who I'd like to meet</i> say "I've already met everyone I need to know"<br>
Or something like that.<br>
Young and optimistic, I thought- How can someone feel that way? There are SO many great people to know!<br>
Yes, and so many douchy assholes. I hate people.<br>
I do. Honestly, when did people decide that you had to be a particular way, and if you aren't, you're singled out?<br>
My Grandpa, he's a bit odd. Sometimes he posts odd things on my statuses that don't even relate, but he's a good guy. Know what I do, I @ him a :) or something. <br>
He is who he is, and he means well and wants to connect. We are so far away. Some people just get so... douchy.</p>
</div>Lyzzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10959448618715092607noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640979548658081562.post-26983091733684967002011-08-04T21:13:00.001-07:002011-08-04T21:13:18.905-07:00Uncertainty<div>Well, it looks like there is a very good chance Lovesband will not go on SPS. What SPS stands for, I can only guess. Either way, it makes me uneasy. Just because it looks like he may not go, does not mean they won't change their minds. Until the boat leaves, I am preparing like he will be on it. Not preparing is SO much worse.
<img src="http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v292/x_hitnrun/lyzzsig.jpg"/></img></div>Lyzzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10959448618715092607noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640979548658081562.post-50567815589010472152011-08-01T22:36:00.001-07:002011-08-01T22:36:29.386-07:00Sliver<div>As Deployment draws near and subsequently begins, you will see more blog posts.
Lovesband does NOT like to talk about deployment AT ALL.
There is a slight chance he may not go.
Are you thinking "YAAAY!"?
I'm not.
I'll tell you why:
I REFUSE to start over. I'd rather let these phases happen, and have them cut short, and be a bit lost, than to begin again, or be stuck in "maybe" land. In my mind, he IS. If he doesn't, great! I have to get used to the idea of him going, and prepare myself. Last time, there was a 75% chance he would not go- he went. I did not afford myself the opportunity to appropriately prepare. I need to be as okay as I can be with the idea of him going. I'd rather weep uncontrollably at home than in the parking-lot of his shop. If preparing can buy me those 12min, then I'm going to do it. I WILL be in a better place this deployment. I CAN do this.
<img src="http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v292/x_hitnrun/lyzzsig.jpg"/></img></div>Lyzzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10959448618715092607noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640979548658081562.post-3833153719565642532011-07-31T22:23:00.001-07:002011-07-31T22:23:12.878-07:00Pre-Deployment #2<div><p>We never expected to do it a second time, we were told that wouldn't happen. But I have gotten pretty good at knowing one sure thing about the Military- Things change. <br>
The upside is that it is much shorter than the last one, and this is a very humanitarian deployment. Not OEF or OIF.<br>
The downside is that we will break even as far as money goes, he will leave less than a month after returning to support EMV (enhanced Mojave Viper) for 3 months. Also, the communication on this will be a lot less than OEF. I talked to Lovesband almost every Sunday anytime between noon and 3pm EST. There was a time we went 5 weeks with no communication. There will be no Moto-Mail.</p>
<p>This time, I will be at OUR home. I won't be making the mistake of moving "home" for this deployment.<br>
This time, I have a support system (ESSENTIAL).<br>
This time, in a Corps town, I won't feel like a leper.<br>
Something about non-military folk knowing your Hubs is deployed makes them feel all sorry for you. I know they mean well, but it's nice for someone to talk about it with strength behind their eyes, knowing how you feel, and having a smile for you. The look in the eyes of my non-military relations just said "you poor thing".</p>
<p>Plus, last time, I tried so hard to have friends, and nice as I was, as willing as I was to drive all over to anywhere; people either shut me out, blew me off, or wanted me to party.<br>
Photography, and this blog, are all that I had. And for a time, Suzanne. </p>
<p>This time I'll have college. And as any Milspouse can tell you, doing a SINGLE productive thing (accomplishing a shower, loading the dishwasher) can seriously make a day.</p>
</div>Lyzzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10959448618715092607noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640979548658081562.post-47253688248069973422011-07-31T21:20:00.001-07:002011-07-31T21:20:29.919-07:00Maybe it's just me.<div><p>I sometimes I wish I was more like my Twitter pals. They seem to have this SAHM thing down. Me, I am a recluse, I hide in my house, in my PJs, for days at a time, eating cheese-its and grapes. I wish I would muster the motivation to be productive daily. Something's wrong with me. I don't keep a gorgeous home, I sometimes know not where my child has left her diaper...<br>
I swear I'll get better at this.</p>
</div>Lyzzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10959448618715092607noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640979548658081562.post-36380608615249952412011-07-28T15:16:00.000-07:002011-07-28T15:16:36.460-07:00If you must know.I don't know how to start. I don't know how to clearly explain just how I feel.<br />
I am going to try, but I am not sure how well it is going to come out.<br />
There is a deployment coming, and it's a hell of a lot closer than 6mo out. There will be no extra pay beyond separation pay, and a small amount of sea pay (I believe), but we will lose COMRATS, and separation and sea pay will probably not cover that, and none of it is tax exempt. Once this is over (IF he is back on time) he will be home for less than a month, and will be gone for 3mo. We are told that the communication will be nothing like OEF. If memory serves me, for the latter half (non deployment) of him being gone, it will also be very minimal.<br />
We are told not to send care packages for the Deployment.<br />
I don't think I could feel more alone right now, college is a complicated process that Husband does not seem interested in. He does not want to talk about deployment. Everyone is busy. Everyone has a life that they are living, people they hang out with. I'm stranded here.<br />
Thank God for Belle. Without her, this really would be a much different post. Sometimes she is the only reason some things do not cross my mind. She makes me a better person, by far.<br />
I cannot sleep. Try as I might, I lay there, thoughts or none. Hallucinations plague my evening. Perhaps an hour or two, and it is time to be awake.<br />
In the afternoon, I watch everyone sleep.<br />
Rat, Dogs, Child, Husband. Sleeping.<br />
Surely not feeling this choke-hold- this chest crushing depression. The simplest tasks bring waves of Anxiety that overthrow me.<br />
I am in a bubble. a cage. Someone has thrown that cage into the ocean, I am drowning, but never die, just the constant panic and inability to breathe.<br />
I feel as if you no longer care. You have moved on with your life. I miss you so much, it brings me to tears just to think of it. I am left behind.<br />
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<img src="http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v292/x_hitnrun/lyzzsig.jpg" />Lyzzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10959448618715092607noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640979548658081562.post-3718773099267272932011-07-21T21:50:00.001-07:002011-07-21T21:50:00.738-07:00DIY Life Edition.<div>Scuzband says we have passed the time to reenlist. It used to be that you could do so until the day of. Now, it is much harder.
My Mom said "They need Soldiers, maybe they'll give him more time"
1) Seriously, Mom?! He's not a Soldier. For the 4,563,453rd time. Nothing wrong with being a Soldier, but he is a Marine. Has been for almost 2.5yrs. (Not counting boot camp).
2) No, they don't. They don't need more. They need 22,000 less.
3) He will not so much as utter a "Maybe" on that subject. Never ever.
"Maybe the economy will pick up by then"
1) What?! How in the hell is that going to happen? Is the inflation fairy going to sprinkle magic dust? In 1yr the Economy will be better? I love you, but an economist you are not.
2) Like that will even matter. Neither of us are qualified to do anything. Oh, I can wait tables and work retail. He can be a crew leader at a fast food joint. Sweet. That will get us health-care. That'll pay the bills.
Fuck your $300 bike. It's now broken. We also paid $20 to have someone 'tune it in' for you to use it 10times.
How long have I been bugging you about college? Huh?
I planned to go to college before, I waited for you. Then you joined the Marine Corps, didn't want to marry me. I took you back, I followed you here. I went through a deployment as a solo-parent.
You were supposed to be leading us to a better life. I followed you, believing that you were newly motivated to give us the life I thought we dreamed of.
Set backs. These are set backs? No. You've had a long fucking time to figure out a goddamned plan, and execute it. You have not. You are your own set back. You will not set your family back.
I have to do this on my own. I have to make my own money, figure out college for myself. I want to provide for my daughter. I want to keep my dog.
I don't need the 'finer things' in life, but I'd like to afford clothes for Belle off of the sales rack at TJMAXX. I want her to go to school with a nice backpack, and the supplies she will need. I want to be able to take her to the Zoo sometimes.
I know it's aa long road. But it would really help if you would get in the fucking car.
<img src="http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v292/x_hitnrun/lyzzsig.jpg"/></img></div>Lyzzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10959448618715092607noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640979548658081562.post-43153206977158690322011-07-18T21:48:00.001-07:002011-07-18T21:48:42.491-07:00Mooove over, buddy.<div>I've only ever liked one roomie out of the 3 Lovesband and I have experienced for an extended period of time. I hear that women sometimes get catty, and that can cause problems, honestly, BFF was the best roomie ever. EVER. We lived together, and are STILL BMFFF. That should say something.
Maybe it's the mindset. Women (esp. married ones) like to keep a decent home. We run it, it is ours. We are used to shit being done the way we do it, help is only okay when it is done the way that we usually have it done, otherwise it's a pain.
For example- if all of the things in your kitchen are suddenly in new places, if your cups are put away upright, if things are melted in the dishwasher, if your laundry is in rumpled piles, your fridge is stockpiled with beer, your microwave smells like Taiwainese farts (and so does everything you cook in it), Your furniture is wet and smells of beer (often)... just to name a few.
BFF and I didn't/don't always get along, but we love and respect eachother. Something that, at times, has taken some work and pain honing in correctly; so we get over those things, tweet, and make up.
The male roomies we have had generally have no respect for anyone what-so-ever. Hell, not even themselves.
I'm tired of it. Each day is like putting my head in a blender.
I get that men are forgetful, that isn't the problem.
"Hey, there were a bunch of cans in the trash, I rinsed them out for recycling"
What SHOULD have happened "Oh, sorry! I forgot" (no biggie)
What Happened
"Why?"
"Because we recycle"
"Yeah, but you didn't have to dig them out"
"Yes, I did. What else was I going to do?"
"Leave them there"
This happens with EVERYTHING!!!! Seriously, everything. It's a headache. From Motorcycle safety, to beer taste, to facts, EVERYTHING is some kind of debate. The worst part is that we can never just drop it, he has to bug, like it's going to solve something. IT NEVER DOES!
Lately, I just ignore him. I don't answer his planted questions. They are ALL planted.
"How should I start an essay?"
"I usually start with a relevant quote"
"Fuck that, I don't want to look shit up, this essay is stupid, why write an essay about why I want to continue my education?"
Seriously? YOU ASKED! Now you want to argue?
Ugh.
So, he's moving back to the barracks.
I am hoping it eases the friendship. I do want to remain friends, and have him over often.
DH feels bad, and I don't. I feel disrespected, and this is the second place he's been that hasn't worked out for him.
Most of all, I am tired of worrying about his irresponsible behavior. Getting trashed by himself on a Monday night, Driving his motorcycle after a few beers (and with little PPE). I worry too much to watch the downward spiral.
I'll be glad for the calm.
I've come to the conclusion that I don't much like people. Usually they are ignorant, self-centered, malevolent, rude, or all of the above. I'm going to have to be happy as a hermit. I expect decency out of people. That is far too much.
<img src="http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v292/x_hitnrun/lyzzsig.jpg"/></img></div>Lyzzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10959448618715092607noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640979548658081562.post-38613019589696572462011-07-12T09:37:00.000-07:002011-07-12T09:37:03.591-07:00BUSY BUSY BUSY!It has been some time since I have put a post on here!<br />
Sorry, folks! We've been VERY busy, and recently, the whole house is sick. Even the dog is vomiting all over.<br />
I had the inlaws here for a week, and it was a BLAST!<br />
Let me explain the Inlaws. Legally, and by blood, they are not related to Lovesband.<br />
They used to be.<br />
His Mother is a whore.<br />
Oh, you probably want better explanation. heh.<br />
She married the father of the gals we now consider his sisters. She was married to them for about 12 years. So, to Lovesband, they are his sisters. We don't speak to his Mother, so they are all he has.<br />
In life, you CAN choose your family. His Mother was so toxic, we had to get her out of our lives. I digress, here are some photos.<br />
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhRxRbACuHfwIKZNKPmwGD2n1WqHvMXw2RVio0wkY901H6eug270WKJmNM-yVzxyeePd6T-9Ka2wt3Pe7iKWxLeiKjv1jtS7YCM0uvPVVcq5u7JeE8OcAlJcvqOzlbSh3vKZ192EcZxVh_q/s1600/IMG_4574.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhRxRbACuHfwIKZNKPmwGD2n1WqHvMXw2RVio0wkY901H6eug270WKJmNM-yVzxyeePd6T-9Ka2wt3Pe7iKWxLeiKjv1jtS7YCM0uvPVVcq5u7JeE8OcAlJcvqOzlbSh3vKZ192EcZxVh_q/s320/IMG_4574.JPG" width="240" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">This is a beam from the Twin Towers</div><br />
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgF4scaMHTCupRlomtFeIofc-CQJgZ9nNy3AcojLhEedQ2jd9zflEb3wFF6l4l9iNi_GSjyHlLJ44NG5PCipKJhW0dLoBr1HhALc3toY49j8NxKSqY2mBET1TwOxH2tq4QJKp1-AbqWYcpn/s1600/IMG_4630.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgF4scaMHTCupRlomtFeIofc-CQJgZ9nNy3AcojLhEedQ2jd9zflEb3wFF6l4l9iNi_GSjyHlLJ44NG5PCipKJhW0dLoBr1HhALc3toY49j8NxKSqY2mBET1TwOxH2tq4QJKp1-AbqWYcpn/s320/IMG_4630.JPG" width="320" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">This is the Beirut Memorial in Jacksonville, NC </div><br />
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhnfnxixukuJEI-O7bsOWNobmq_1eZcLPcUT7dWztPzgEogOyGuJi4d1QdaFt3oNCz5PuLwIM8tTKW5_MVWn_d6y4ZMb6lvioUU16Ce_bqm71YNh9w6F7wxGHQIF8xcz32eXRgXiecEfPmy/s1600/IMG_4654.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhnfnxixukuJEI-O7bsOWNobmq_1eZcLPcUT7dWztPzgEogOyGuJi4d1QdaFt3oNCz5PuLwIM8tTKW5_MVWn_d6y4ZMb6lvioUU16Ce_bqm71YNh9w6F7wxGHQIF8xcz32eXRgXiecEfPmy/s320/IMG_4654.JPG" width="240" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">This is actually the 4th of July, what an awesome day to see this!</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">(We went with <a href="http://irgruntwife.blogspot.com/">Coco</a> on Memorial Day, also)</div><br />
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiOaZaZXHA4hs7pLvdBTqThX1Sk7P16-nRptHJ72wRDB7EZ6Rp7ySrK1MZS0B6rSMqndNz_PRqoObBBmhl5-phfVJQ7yazUBx9sE2ElgcI-h0g2AFtb8M3e2def0VmTaJRv-yUZkV0Pf97I/s1600/IMG_4670.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiOaZaZXHA4hs7pLvdBTqThX1Sk7P16-nRptHJ72wRDB7EZ6Rp7ySrK1MZS0B6rSMqndNz_PRqoObBBmhl5-phfVJQ7yazUBx9sE2ElgcI-h0g2AFtb8M3e2def0VmTaJRv-yUZkV0Pf97I/s320/IMG_4670.JPG" width="240" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">We went to see the Fireworks on Camp Lejeune! They had The Jane Deer Girls! They opened for the</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">2mar div band, which was AMAZING!</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">(Coco witnessed her first Colors)</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiO8r8S_ToUzh2djoEEQofDFyGjr1h_W4uqU6-OrLTEo7R4VqpAP4Gy-iQBjKTrMD_ElxXkDMxqnN3cVrXVfNL9kaAHfENxYa1F55DzaZOo3qx5y3xUuKKdoLnw0l5wsv6g-3DTfDbb2Buj/s1600/IMG_4711.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiO8r8S_ToUzh2djoEEQofDFyGjr1h_W4uqU6-OrLTEo7R4VqpAP4Gy-iQBjKTrMD_ElxXkDMxqnN3cVrXVfNL9kaAHfENxYa1F55DzaZOo3qx5y3xUuKKdoLnw0l5wsv6g-3DTfDbb2Buj/s320/IMG_4711.JPG" width="240" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">We went to the <a href="http://www.ncaquariums.com/pine-knoll-shores">Aquarium at Pine Knoll shores</a> on Toothy Tuesday!</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">We LOVE this Aquarium, and the Inlaws loved it, too!</div><br />
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjRJg3x5uwjz2R1L3A0QlxGaUKrrqQv7nwLhKCwD6o3EqARvuGFut4qD5j1-8FfGxIKAhbbfE4sA_XQEiqpJfihY8dzoKJJjAGphjUqZ_tMyOQc5c5pA8Ba-G5uWOCOJmyy5Z7xq8ARDPis/s1600/IMG_4739.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjRJg3x5uwjz2R1L3A0QlxGaUKrrqQv7nwLhKCwD6o3EqARvuGFut4qD5j1-8FfGxIKAhbbfE4sA_XQEiqpJfihY8dzoKJJjAGphjUqZ_tMyOQc5c5pA8Ba-G5uWOCOJmyy5Z7xq8ARDPis/s320/IMG_4739.JPG" width="240" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;">This was SIL's LEAST favorite exhibit! </div><div style="text-align: center;">(The snakes) </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjohmIq95RDvZt2k5Hiqi2eYPYt_jhAWFx3_iwUkVOqYOmpzWJGX-WyVdEAuFHbCwUclrrYF6ZAPdj89QZ0jboBGHrbJP2KVpjpjx0jdFrtOW7Ooz3tB4VR_G3VMlWCR2d0pP9EyETcARrh/s1600/IMG_4759.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjohmIq95RDvZt2k5Hiqi2eYPYt_jhAWFx3_iwUkVOqYOmpzWJGX-WyVdEAuFHbCwUclrrYF6ZAPdj89QZ0jboBGHrbJP2KVpjpjx0jdFrtOW7Ooz3tB4VR_G3VMlWCR2d0pP9EyETcARrh/s320/IMG_4759.JPG" width="320" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;">Yeah, I had to. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEis9XpIpKNeEPrKDvdnR5Yu6leOFMMsMWVJOt0Ahqi8OhtbNq35zQV0nj9igtCW7dtcw6t2TKJM027Ht7_Kk9B29IcOIng0A3urqPdsCpQXpScrlCpKJRsX2_0CM6gG8hh7xm5rQfgh5xwh/s1600/IMG_4762.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEis9XpIpKNeEPrKDvdnR5Yu6leOFMMsMWVJOt0Ahqi8OhtbNq35zQV0nj9igtCW7dtcw6t2TKJM027Ht7_Kk9B29IcOIng0A3urqPdsCpQXpScrlCpKJRsX2_0CM6gG8hh7xm5rQfgh5xwh/s320/IMG_4762.JPG" width="320" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">We're a little blurry, but it's Belle and I!</div><br />
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiy4puH2JtnxpQwi8l2nOI5xPwQrHO_mlIvqO7tJQ3wVqc-e5k8ZL1Wg-58eRGXBmK2TGBaZKkDq9cQWwiEiVIO01x4L7at-_o5sVlASfPwHiLRgOuHYn07IWE27LWWuSnAFMFTyKysBVuV/s1600/IMG_4865.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiy4puH2JtnxpQwi8l2nOI5xPwQrHO_mlIvqO7tJQ3wVqc-e5k8ZL1Wg-58eRGXBmK2TGBaZKkDq9cQWwiEiVIO01x4L7at-_o5sVlASfPwHiLRgOuHYn07IWE27LWWuSnAFMFTyKysBVuV/s320/IMG_4865.JPG" width="320" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">I tried to keep them well entertained!</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">They are such great people!</div><br />
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjtjTVoKQDZDJ0EepwQ3qEObM1BeQilBIM2UtlTX4hL4Qa9EUCPQoHIr4AB0EPN-vVYSlPU3yEQMkwR02eFxHcamm3jMqut6jgCUh62nZp5za-Ax9nhKPWsyTg2zQo1nbc36nMvtzUpngzM/s1600/IMG_4894.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjtjTVoKQDZDJ0EepwQ3qEObM1BeQilBIM2UtlTX4hL4Qa9EUCPQoHIr4AB0EPN-vVYSlPU3yEQMkwR02eFxHcamm3jMqut6jgCUh62nZp5za-Ax9nhKPWsyTg2zQo1nbc36nMvtzUpngzM/s320/IMG_4894.JPG" width="240" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">And Belle LOVES her cousins!</div><br />
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhOXsbvFg7rmpaKUERo5VCmg4oIOZQqgPa0VLEtChDJjIGkWKtNPxsdlv1ELxMERPIIroPSUGr7MQf9a8iye5fFeKNcuvUkUFdfS-axQDmwapU88SUJ22Cbu19sPLkCg11XN9N5_EB6spTR/s1600/IMG_4895.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhOXsbvFg7rmpaKUERo5VCmg4oIOZQqgPa0VLEtChDJjIGkWKtNPxsdlv1ELxMERPIIroPSUGr7MQf9a8iye5fFeKNcuvUkUFdfS-axQDmwapU88SUJ22Cbu19sPLkCg11XN9N5_EB6spTR/s320/IMG_4895.JPG" width="320" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">But Uncle J SOOO was not getting a kiss.</div><br />
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</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">So, after the Inlaws left, we had an inappropriate birthday for Coco <3 </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">And we made a <a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/The-PeBolBakkens/162032457202255">Facebook</a> and <a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/PeBolBakken">Youtube</a> for our unconventional family- The PeBolBakken's.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Which is a mix of 3 last names. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">There are, in fact, pictures.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiBNDBL52SXSuJvbAXOcpsD0jnn_c0KV-Aj5wl6n2hMI6Bg3aDPFMPxalVtCNioiDqp-NGHFZygPewUPpnGuIqJgUeCNb3VjS9JkIjbrD5ljlQyFbFCkwomesIDAkZlz8iSJz116mkn3aIY/s1600/IMG_4917.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiBNDBL52SXSuJvbAXOcpsD0jnn_c0KV-Aj5wl6n2hMI6Bg3aDPFMPxalVtCNioiDqp-NGHFZygPewUPpnGuIqJgUeCNb3VjS9JkIjbrD5ljlQyFbFCkwomesIDAkZlz8iSJz116mkn3aIY/s320/IMG_4917.JPG" width="240" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">All my ducks in a row <3</div><br />
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgbpIRkzb7eLp1oDRCSk0tvAlIIEXo0otDIrd4O9C-v_xJTVtdk56Jv2fDC8UReB2sEBb2_rlwAlbckcr_X112mgYxtaSk5bQfsSXoXe4lTUdran2BFxWDMuxkuwtbiIhyphenhyphenVpidc721sY6dt/s1600/IMG_4937.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgbpIRkzb7eLp1oDRCSk0tvAlIIEXo0otDIrd4O9C-v_xJTVtdk56Jv2fDC8UReB2sEBb2_rlwAlbckcr_X112mgYxtaSk5bQfsSXoXe4lTUdran2BFxWDMuxkuwtbiIhyphenhyphenVpidc721sY6dt/s320/IMG_4937.JPG" width="240" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">Kurt has a BEEEG BOOOOSH!</div><br />
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjaxiHjKPSPbuAeGQbOGlJ3l8Qqgr6VdhofwfvggBOpd5QKFsp9VR-gPKYs_Nq5w6Mn6WsKXByidGzNKQ_Uj_ownt3Hr11unT-9KQY-xXS9l8dB0T1kvPeRntwAZ24CA4LQ87ax_dwvwG1R/s1600/IMG_4948.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjaxiHjKPSPbuAeGQbOGlJ3l8Qqgr6VdhofwfvggBOpd5QKFsp9VR-gPKYs_Nq5w6Mn6WsKXByidGzNKQ_Uj_ownt3Hr11unT-9KQY-xXS9l8dB0T1kvPeRntwAZ24CA4LQ87ax_dwvwG1R/s320/IMG_4948.JPG" width="240" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">I didn't know Coco was behind me LOL</div><br />
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Yeah. It was an AWESOME week <3<br />
<img src="http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v292/x_hitnrun/lyzzsig.jpg" />Lyzzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10959448618715092607noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640979548658081562.post-39890827635949599672011-06-22T19:32:00.001-07:002011-06-22T19:32:03.788-07:00Season<div>Do you ever find yourself different, and not even know that you had changed?
I'm there.
Lovesband has been put on RBE for this field op. This means, while everyone returns home Fri-Sun, he will return Tues-Wed.
Am I bummed? A bit.
Want to know a secret? I am really enjoying this ME time. I think I've needed some space. I just have been feeling so much pressure, and like I am not living up to the "standard" lately. I've been angry all the time. It is nice to have this cool-off period. Plus, I can do things on MY time, I don't expect anyone else to do things, like assist with dishes, or laundry. I don't have to deal with things being put where I can't seem to find them. I don't have to not do things because he doesn't feel like it. If I want to go to the Park with Belle, but he doesn't, I look like a jerk if I go "without" him. Idk.
I'm just blah.
<img src="http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v292/x_hitnrun/lyzzsig.jpg"/></img></div>Lyzzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10959448618715092607noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640979548658081562.post-15153953527559126772011-06-15T22:22:00.001-07:002011-06-15T22:22:03.752-07:00Gravity<div><p>Part of me can't wait for October 13th 2012. Sure, I've met some great people, but the distance between us and regular civilians is too wide a gap. It's been almost 3 years, I can say I am good friends with 2 people in real life. One is an hour away, and the other is moving 2,800miles at the end of the month. Other than that, I don't know anybody. Maybe it's my fault. I try to be social, but people just seem to not want to know me. I say "let me know when is good for you!" <br>
"Ok!"<br>
And they never let me know. I see them out and about doing things with other people. I can't help but be jealous. I am not jealous because they have a friend that is not me, I am jealous that they have what I want. Friendship. <br>
Suzanne would have been perfect. Had she not been insane. She was a 22y/o BFing Mom. Her daughter a month younger than mine. We cooked together, went to panera. She was in a deployment almost over, I was about to enter one. <br>
Alas, she lost her cookies. I knew she wasn't perfect, I knew she lied, I knew she suffered with anorexia, and borderline personality disorder, and I accepted all of that. We were friends for almost a year. <br>
I knew I could always call Suzanne. She could always call me. I would always answer, or call RIGHT back.<br>
I am just starting to feel closed off from the world.<br>
Like they don't want me anymore.<br>
I want a friend who knows that a favor is not an imposition, that they don't owe me anything in return but friendship. </p>
</div>Lyzzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10959448618715092607noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640979548658081562.post-49486126483336206962011-06-10T22:03:00.001-07:002011-06-10T22:03:07.997-07:00Time<div><p>I've spent the night crying.<br>
I'm so pathetic. How did I ever wind up to be so lost, and so angry?<br>
All I ever wanted was QUALITY TIME. In this military life, in this day and age, Quantity in relation to time is really unrealistic. You can spend all the time you want with someone, and never get anything from it. We are coming in on a few week seperation, and you would think that we would try to spend a lot of good quality time together.<br>
Right now, I am struggling so much.<br>
How many different ways can I put it?<br>
I NEED your QUALITY TIME to feel loved, and some words of affirmation would also be appreciated. You? I honestly don't know what you want, besides your bike, anymore. <br>
The point is, without you spending some meaningful time with me, and reminding me I am important, I do not feel loved. <br>
What, is the simple fact that you're here supposed to prove to me that you care? It doesn't. <br>
I say "hey maybe we can go to the pool tomorrow!" Because we can't go to the Ocean, we are broke, so I am trying to think of free, fun things to do. You look at me with a face that says "yeah, how about we don't" and mumble something about not liking public pools. Yeah, this conversation happening at the park, which you're not enjoying either.<br>
The past few nights,  we've settled into sitting on opposite sides of the room, doing different things, not paying attention to eachother at all. You're on KatRiders.com, and I'm only watching whatever I'm watching on NetFlix to pass the time until you're done. But when you're done, you go to bed. The baby sleeps, and you want nothing to do with me.</p>
</div>Lyzzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10959448618715092607noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640979548658081562.post-16922679872446491402011-06-08T22:45:00.001-07:002011-06-08T22:45:31.589-07:00Asses and Elbows.<div><p>It's been ages since I've gotten the motivation to work out.<br>
Today, such motivation hit. I went full throttle into some Insanity Abs with Buddy, who is my usual work out companion. I was doing quite well, if I do say so myself. Though, during the work out there are many a manuver done on the floor, leaned back a bit, with your legs flailing about in some manner.<br>
You don't want to know the rest, but lucky you; I'm going to tell it.<br>
I received rug burn at the very top of my ass-crack. It's not pretty. It hurts like hell whenever my cheeks rub together (WHICH IS ALWAYS).<br>
To top it off, I have rug burn on my elbows from some low plank positioned flailing. So, now it just looks like I've had some wild sexual tryst recently. I mean, had it just been my posterior, nobody would really know, but until the elbow burn goes away... <br>
I'll wear different pants tomorrow, and figure out somethinng for my poor elbows.</p>
</div>Lyzzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10959448618715092607noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640979548658081562.post-6856555944248960512011-06-08T20:26:00.000-07:002011-06-08T20:26:21.511-07:00Love Language LiesOnce upon a time, a day before we got married, Lovesband and I took the <a href="http://www.5lovelanguages.com/assessments/love/">5 Love Languages Test.</a><br />
When we did, we both got quality time as our Love Language. Perfect, right? Yeaaaah, not so much.<br />
I think, when Lovesband filled it out, he was either putting down what he thought I would want him to put down, or he was in a post-boot camp/pre-MCT/getting married romantic high.<br />
I just feel that this is not his language.<br />
I think we should take the class offered through MCCS.<br />
Have you taken it?<br />
<br />
<img src="http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v292/x_hitnrun/lyzzsig.jpg" />Lyzzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10959448618715092607noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640979548658081562.post-33989393693621804742011-06-08T20:21:00.001-07:002011-06-08T20:21:57.737-07:00Man ayes a lotta Mayonnaise in my hair...SO, I tried some mayo, egg yolk, and olive oil in my hair.<br />
Honestly?<br />
I noticed no difference.<br />
Maybe it will be different for you?<br />
<img src="http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v292/x_hitnrun/lyzzsig.jpg" />Lyzzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10959448618715092607noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640979548658081562.post-14158938909036223862011-06-08T12:03:00.001-07:002011-06-08T12:03:28.014-07:00Ant Repellant- I conclude.<div><p>Remember when I posted about that Ant Repellant I made a while back?<br>
I have no idea if it worked. The results are a bit inconclusive. <br>
Before we applied the repellant, we (BFFF and I) DEEEEEP cleaned the house. Under appliances, and I even mopped the wall.<br>
Then, I accidentally left a Zebra Cake (BFFF is not a Zebra Cake fan) wrapper out on the porch. It attracted 1 cockroach and 485743 ants.<br>
But, since then, and the application of the "Repellant", I haven't seen a single ant in the house.<br>
It's a nice alternative to harsh chemicals, I suppose. Does it really work? I'm not sure.<br>
Yeah, what an awesome post.</p>
</div>Lyzzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10959448618715092607noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640979548658081562.post-55619969427968914102011-06-07T21:27:00.001-07:002011-06-15T11:33:40.498-07:00Who.<div>I am at a crossroads in my life.
I am trying to become who I want to be, and not be who I was before.
A me that, to this day, Lovesband is still uncovering.
It's not easy. If I said I don't struggle daily inside of myself, I would be lying. I am succeeding (as of late) at pushing the negative parts of that old me away, and keeping parts of her that I like.
My life tends to be riddled with "What if?". I work a lot on focusing on all that is good in my life, to keep from looking on the past.
I have many blessings. It's unfair to look on the past on the idea of things that may not have even been good, when, unlike some of the world, I have so many great things in my life, right?
I wonder if I will always have this struggle. If I will ever just BE who I want to be, or if I will always have the other side of me rapping at my windows.
<img src="http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v292/x_hitnrun/lyzzsig.jpg"/></img></div>Lyzzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10959448618715092607noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640979548658081562.post-51741002158378414012011-06-04T21:32:00.001-07:002011-06-04T22:39:31.407-07:00Friends.<div><p>Is it normal, in a marriage, to end up feeling more like friends than lovers? I feel so... rejected.<br>
I don't even feel like we're BEST friends. Our relationship is so quiet. I feel like I'm bothering him all the time. Holding him back, and just plain annoying him. Sometimes, we have bouts of intimacy.<br>
It's like he's avoiding it. Avoiding me. He's just not interested.<br>
I'll be honest, before marriage, I'd have taken that disinterest to the bank, and cashed it in for an account with interest. Now, I have to roll with the punches. <br>
At the moment, I just want to go to sleep, and wake up to a different tomorrow. I'm confident, and feeling sexy as ever. Yet, I cannot hold his interest.</p>
<p>And, I'm pent up. Ya know?</p>
<p>My Mother always made it clear that I have to uh, "take care of my man". So, what about me? Hey! Weilder of the lap rocket, yeah you! Can I get some time?.<br>
Seriously.</p>
</div>Lyzzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10959448618715092607noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640979548658081562.post-87552186401716521902011-05-31T11:47:00.001-07:002011-05-31T11:47:26.809-07:00Ant Repellant.So, I put together some homemade ant repellant. We bought ant "traps" where they take the poison back home to their nest, so that takes time, and who knows how many queens there are in the area. Anyway, with the dogs and Belle, I didn't really want to spray a chemical. So, I looked up "Natural Ant Repellant" using what other search engine than my "Need it all, Find it all" Google. The results were: Basil (I have 2 of those plants outside, so that was covered), Garlic, Pepper, Cinnamon, and Mint. Other than the Basil, I used my knock-off Magic Bullet, and mixed all the options together with some water. I proceeded to sprinkle said mixture around the area outside. <br/> It smells like herbalists live here. I guess it's better than chemicals. <br/> I'm so granola. Damnit. <br/> I'll let you know how it works out. <br/> <img src="http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v292/x_hitnrun/lyzzsig.jpg"/></img><div style='clear: both; text-align: center; font-size: xx-small;'>Published with Blogger-droid v1.6.9</div>Lyzzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10959448618715092607noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640979548658081562.post-83765335339291148742011-05-30T22:45:00.001-07:002011-05-30T22:45:03.720-07:00Arm Pork.I have to be better about losing weight. I saw a picture BFF took, and let me tell you, my arms looked like hams. I've been eating better (more whole wheat/whole grain, no pizza rolls, more salad, more fruits and veggies). It's just not enough. It's going to be hard with Belle, as far as working out, but I am going to have to work on portions, too. I need to drink a lot more water and Green tea. <br/> I want to wear a particular dress to the Ball in November, I really need to get this weight off. <br/> I know I can. I just have to begin. <br/> <img src="http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v292/x_hitnrun/lyzzsig.jpg"/></img><div style='clear: both; text-align: center; font-size: xx-small;'>Published with Blogger-droid v1.6.9</div>Lyzzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10959448618715092607noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640979548658081562.post-61513201982639838692011-05-30T12:38:00.001-07:002011-05-30T12:38:53.871-07:00Tell Me.<p><a href='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjiteRqRumI47je1MMjyA5nC7kB9PqPXFONqN-RwfIijkzsiqEX8gbRreXyrKUScLtClnRmSn1xWDDINlvR0ZhpdGaPz36Feeos8o9v05fDeAMEGIS7eVk6QfO4i4sU7TE4_Tf-hqjenzze//'><img src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjiteRqRumI47je1MMjyA5nC7kB9PqPXFONqN-RwfIijkzsiqEX8gbRreXyrKUScLtClnRmSn1xWDDINlvR0ZhpdGaPz36Feeos8o9v05fDeAMEGIS7eVk6QfO4i4sU7TE4_Tf-hqjenzze/s400/IMG_20110421_213847.jpg' /></a></p>I firmly believe (more and more daily, now that I am a Milspouse), that you need to put yourself in the shoes of others. It's a whole lot easier to see intent, when you do that. <br/> Something that may hurt you, or seem stupid, may not have been borne from feelings or intent to hurt. <br/> It breaks my heart when people take something I do in a way I don't intend. Even moreso when it has to do with something that I don't know about. <br/> I want to be someone that people can say "I know you didn't mean to upset me, but ________________, upsets me" <br/> I don't WANT to upset people. Especially those I care so ver much about. I want to make those people smile, and laugh. <br/> I want to be somebody that the people I am close with can share feelings with. <br/> I am not yet this person. I need to be this person. <br/> <img src="http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v292/x_hitnrun/lyzzsig.jpg"/></img><div style='clear: both; text-align: center; font-size: xx-small;'>Published with Blogger-droid v1.6.9</div>Lyzzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10959448618715092607noreply@blogger.com0